This is a picture of me sitting in my new car that fell into my lap at the end of last year! My friend was moving back to Ireland and because they drive on the opposite side, couldn’t take her car. Over dinner and a movie one night I spontaneously posed the question, what if I bought it? After all it was exactly the kind I wanted, a BMW X3 and with low miles too! 

One of my favorite things about the To Be Magnetic work is that it helps you become your own energetic pattern reader and start to expect good things to come your way. What do you do to receive? The car was the cherry on top of an expansive year sitting in the passenger seat more often than having my foot on the gas pedal. 

It’s so easy to lose perspective of how creation works, especially when things aren’t going the way we imagined. Our emotions flare up and we get dialed into crappy thoughts. I contracted hard post S&S and am learning how to be nice to myself again. 

Manifestation can be trusted when you have examples of positive self talk resulting in beautiful new ideas, connections, experiences and surprises. 

Have you ever tracked your energy to see what happens when you believe in yourself and expand? Releasing our attachment from outcomes, following our creativity, walking through big fears and setting boundaries all confirm our belief in abundance. Taking action from our future self, even when it’s scary, is how we create magnetism. 

The last week of April I taught a personal branding workshop I created from scratch and then took a few days off to attend a conference I felt inspired to go to even though it was expensive; 7 days later I went on an amazing first date and we’re still dating.

When I went on a girls trip to Toronto with my mom and sister, I organized a lavish dinner out and picked up the $500 tab. Not even 24 hours later, someone mentioned me on IG and I had 4 new discovery calls on my calendar which lead to 3 new clients. 

I went out to dinner last weekend and passed up the last table to a group of girls that walked in at the same time. Not to worry, 2 minutes later the best seats in the whole place opened up for us. 

When I go back and study the timelines of big manifestations coming through like boyfriends, a new car, financing/ retail locations in my last business and an influx in clients or sales I can clearly see how. 

The how is all in our conviction. The conviction to trust our desires and feel safe enough to pursue them even when nothing is validating them externally. To take ourselves on that trip we’ve been wanting to go on, to devote ourselves more deeply to our crafts, to believe that we are loved and our needs will be met no matter what, to ask for what we want and to say no to things we don’t want.

When we make decisions from the place of who we want to be vs who we are right now, things shift. I have a page in my journal dedicated to tracking the timelines on when things come in and also fall out of my life. As we uplevel, we naturally have to process and let go of strong emotions. In order to understand your pattern, you have to know what you want so you can see how the tests popping up are helping you shed in order to receive something new. So be gentle with yourself and never ever be scared of the dark!