Self-Care Gift Guides
I’ll be honest—gifting isn’t my first love language. I’m more of a words-of-affirmation and physical-touch type of gal. I don’t gift on every occasion, but I do love sending cards to my loved ones throughout the year, often with a little note or a photo of us together. To me, seeing and loving people fully is what matters most.
That said, what inspired my take on a gift guide this season are ideas to help the ones you love love themselves even more. I’ve rounded up tons of gifts to spark little moments of joy for your sisters, friends, moms, grandmas, cousins, and aunties—hopefully inspiring ideas at every price point. And maybe even something special for yourself too!
Primally Pure Candle– 100% beeswax, which is hard to find, to fill the room in a yummy warm citrus scent.
Lunya Sleep Mask– silky and easy to pop in the wash; my sister and I both love it. How about an organic silk pillowcase too?
Belnu Chai Fleur Perfume– just ordered this! A warm, comforting scent that supports a small business (founded by a past client and friend).
The Five Minute Journal– for a simple daily and visually pleasing gratitude practice.
World of Flowers Coloring Book– I love to color with colored pencils to unwind, you can get lost in these gorgeous illustrations.
Osea Sea Mist– a refreshing desk side pick-me-up.
Osea Body Oil– great bedside companion for an evening somatic check-in.
Grown Alchemist Hand Cream– another beautiful desk side item. Also love their hand soaps.
How To Manifest– A fantastic manual from To Be Magnetic for anyone obsessed with the energetics of life of growth. A pathway membership is another thoughtful option.
Floral Socks– a sweet and thoughtful. Also worth considering this sportier marled pair.
Ruffle Socks– who wouldn’t welcome a basic refresh that feels a little elevated?
Weighted Blanket– my favorite for relaxing; filled with glass beads so it doesn’t overheat.
The Artist’s Way– a classic 12-week workbook for creative expansion and healing; also supportive is this daily reader for ongoing motivation.
Oracle Cards– my very favorite for reading the energy of the day or week ahead. I shuffle until one falls out!
Sauna Blanket– The best self-care investment I’ve made; I still use it 1–2x per week. I’m as obsessed with their red light face mask. You can use code: JILLIANBREMER for 15% off.
Joggers– Everlane’s sweats are amazing, and I also love this pair I recently got from Gap. As a separate idea, I live in the oversized fit of this sweatshirt.
Picture Frame– love the texture and dimension of this one. Photos make such a thoughtful gift; we gifted my dad a photo book and mug from our Europe trip this summer via Canva—another great idea!
Wine Glasses– I have these in green and always get compliments on them.
Nécessiare Hand Lotion– Smells amazing and comes in a generous size, perfect for the kitchen or bathroom sink.
AD At Home– Amy Astley’s new book is as gorgeous on the outside as the homes inside; a real visual delight. This one is another feast for the eyes.
Marbled Notepad– I just love marble; this would elevate any daily to-do list.
Key Tassel– a thoughtful little add-on for furniture drawer knobs or antique keys.
Koala Eco– clean cleaning products in a pretty, giftable set.
Scribe Wine– a local Sonoma favorite; a friend gifted me this a few years ago, and it was well enjoyed.
Raffia Coasters– I bought double of a similar set and scatter them across my bedroom, office, and living room. Adds a touch of texture everywhere.
Cashmere Blanket– truly a dream gift, available in a ton of colors.
Dandelion Chocolate– another San Francisco favorite; the packaging is beautiful. I always bring a few bars with me when I travel home!
Beeswax Pillar Candle– my favorite brand, also love rope sticks. A candle-making kit is a fun idea!
Room Spray– perfect for a cozy winter scent around the house.
Pot– indoor ferns are my current obsession; a houseplant could be a thoughtful gift.
Ruffle Tissue Box Cover– for the friends who move big feelings with tears—cute and practical. I have a few of these around my apartment.
Cosmetic Case Set– my go-to set that’s pretty on your shelf; comes in so many colors, but I especially love this rich cobalt blue.
Matches– I love collecting matches from restaurants; a pretty box like this would be a lovely coffee table addition.
Create The Love Cards– perfect to have stashed away for a rainy day to connect more deeply with the ones you love. Speaking of, scrabble, a puzzle or paint by number set are similar options.
Polo Hat– my favorite hat, classic and effortless.
Monogrammed Tote– I love the structured size of this one, so practical and special.
Cashmere Blanket Scarf– another go-to gift that everyone I gift to loves!
Hurricane Vase– love the uneven edges; perfect for flowers or a candle. An investment for someone that collects glassware.
Alexis Smart Flower Remedy– a little emotional support for anyone going through something big. This book is so enlightening for deep feelings too.
Marbled Post-it Tower– obsessed; a bookmark or journal would also be cute.
Rothy’s Clogs– I feel like these will be the “it” gift this year—perfect as stylish house slides.
White Robe– a plush classic; I practically live in mine during winter.
Rattan Tray– ideal for breakfast and coffee in bed—my favorite weekend morning routine.
Hiking Boots– not glamorous, but these are my tried-and-true boots; love how feminine the lighter color feels.
Human Design Book– a perfect manual for anyone who loves the system as much as you do. Another idea- gift someone a 75 minute chart reading with me!
Osea Body Scrub– a thoughtful bath addition—something you rarely buy for yourself. And don’t forget some special salts to make the perfect combo.
The Creative Act– a super inspiring read for any creative in your life. You can flip open any page to soak in the wisdom.
Swell Water Bottle– my favorite slim size for tossing in a tote. Love a bigger 32 oz for hiking.
Yoga Mat– I recently saw someone with this color combo and now I need it in my life! I find my way to my mat 3-4x a week in this cozy ribbed bra to do some stretches and flows. A foam roller would be a bit of an unexpected gift- I love mine but wish it was a prettier color like this!
Luggage Tag & Passport Set– so helpful for keeping things organized and personalizing your bag so it doesn’t get mistaken.
PJ Set– who doesn’t love a fresh set? I’m a poplin-over-knit gal, and this color combo would work year-round.
New Balance Sneakers– love this light pink pair; perfect for walking and the kind of thing you usually don’t buy for yourself.
Away Tote– been studying what people use at airports for carry-on totes; this structured one looks great to try. Another little idea here for those who love to travel.
Hanky Panky Underwear– a very much appreciated gift- they’re expensive but they last.
Beach Blanket– perfect for beach or park days.
Bala Weights– planning to order these for myself; such a pretty, motivating gift.
Osea Hyaluronic Lip Gloss– lip gloss in general is an easy, thoughtful gift.
Wildling Gu Sha– love all their content and tutorials; the quality of this stone is so smooth.
Jade Roller– haven’t used one yet, but it seems like an easy addition to a skincare routine. An ice roller is an option along the same lines and very affordable for a secret Santa option.
Marbled Stationary– The colors just make me so happy; this company has so many special finds. Check out this shopping list pad with citrus fruits.
Fair Isle Socks– love this color combo—cozy and cheerful.
Remember, the best gifts aren’t always the biggest or the flashiest; they’re the ones that make someone feel known.
I love gifts that are low- or no-cost, like curating a playlist, foraging florals or greenery from the outdoors, or baking a treat such as chocolate bark, spiced nuts, or granola. If I were better at freeform drawing and painting (I’m more of a doodler), I’d say try homemade cards and gift tags too!
Coming up next: a holiday style guide, and on Black Friday I’ll share the full rundown of all my favorite sales—perfect for both gifting and personal investing.
